Tuesday, December 23, 2008

Bread of Life

Our students at my girls school would be served well by this dvd I think.

Look What I Can Teach the Baby Mom!
















Christmas Program at School












Morgan was our Blessed Mother. She was so thrilled to get to play that role. I only wish that the school would do a better job all year long in developing that desire to be holy!! Our children should be longing to be saints and our Catholic schools should be just the perfect place to encourage and promote holiness and piety. It's a real shame that so many schools are wasting such a golden opportunity to impart the Faith in a real and powerful way. We need to be Catholic through and through and not just places that put on a good "show" for the Holidays. Sometimes I really DO MISS homeschooling...there's so much I love about it...but then there's so much I hate about it too!

Monday, December 22, 2008

December Pics











Sidebar Videos Make Me Laugh

I just did these dancing Santa videos...Ok I'm way too easy to please 'cause they really do make me laugh out loud! I need to laugh right about now...now's the time of year when I eat way too much junk (like candy and cookies etc) and then feel depressed about it and obsess on my weight and then head for the candy to make it all feel better...AAAAAAAAhhh!! So I enjoy looking at my family and myself included in a more humorous light - it keeps it all in perspective - don't take yourself so damn seriously Kris!!! ENJOY!!!!!! the Holiday Season! and worry about the rest after the New Year!

Monday, December 15, 2008

Teens learn a valuable lesson

Orphan imagination

Hidden Suffering - For the sake of His Sorrowful Passion HAVE MERCY on us and On the Whole World

Remember The Forgotten




I have a special place in my heart for the russian orphans I saw in a Diane Sawyer show a long long time ago. I walked awat from that show a changed person. I read everything I could find on the subject and tried to watch more documentaries on the matter. The effects of communism on the Russian people are long lasting and far reaching...there are so many unwanted and rejected children there. The orphanages are filled and are very poor. The staff cannot adequately care for the children. They suffer alone and are often turned out to the streets to find work as prostitutes and comfort in drugs when they are never adopted out....the thought of all those little faces, those dear sweet little arms that so desperately need to hold onto someone and know that they are loved. I can't imagine the fear and the lonliness and the feeling of being so unlovable. I t sickens me that we live in a world where we waste so much money and so much time on nonsense when there are so many children that DESERVE to be loved!!!

Anyhow I found this Christmas story over at domestic church.com and I thought I'd share it. Here it is...



"For Always" - A Russian Christmas Story.

by Will Fish


presumed to be public domain



In 1994, two Americans answered an invitation from the Russian Department of Education to teach morals and ethics (based on biblical principles) in the public schools. They were invited to teach at prisons, businesses, the fire and police departments and a large orphanage. About 100 boys and girls who had been abandoned, abused, and left in the care of a government-run program were in the orphanage. They relate the following story in their own words:
It was nearing the holiday season, 1994, time for our orphans to hear for the first time the traditional story of Christmas. We told them about Mary and Joseph arriving in Bethlehem. Finding no room in the inn, the couple went to a stable, where the baby Jesus was born and placed in a manger.
Throughout the story, the children and orphanage staff sat in amazement as they listened. Some sat on the edges of their stools, trying to grasp every word.
Completing the story, we gave the children three small pieces of cardboard to make a crude manger. Each child was given a small paper square, cut from yellow napkins I had brought with me. No colored paper was available in the city. Following instructions, the children tore the paper and carefully laid strips in the manger for straw. Small squares of flannel (cut from a worn-out nightgown an American lady was throwing away as she left Russia) were used for the baby's blanket. A doll-like baby was cut from tan felt we had brought from the United States.
The orphans were busy assembling their manger as I walked among them to see if they needed any help. All went well until I got to one table where little Misha sat--he looked to be about 6 years old and had finished his project. As I looked at the little boy's manger, I was startled to see not one, but two babies in the manger.
Quickly, I called for the translator to ask the lad why there were two babies in the manger. Crossing his arms in front of him and looking at his completed manger scene, the child began to repeat the story very seriously. For such a young boy, who had only heard the Christmas story once, he related the happenings accurately--until he came to the part where Mary put the baby Jesus in the manger.
Then Misha started to ad lib. He made up his own ending to the story as he said, "And when Maria laid the baby in the manger, Jesus looked at me and asked me if I had a place to stay. I told him I have no mamma and I have no papa, so I don't have any place to stay.
Then Jesus told me I could stay with him. But I told him I couldn't, because I didn't have a gift to give him like everybody else did. But I wanted to stay with Jesus so much, so I thought about what I had that maybe I could use for a gift. I thought maybe if I kept him warm, that would be a good gift.
So I asked Jesus, "If I keep you warm, will that be a good enough gift?"
And Jesus told me, "If you keep me warm, that will be the best gift anybody ever gave me."
"So I got into the manger, and then Jesus looked at me and he told me I could stay with him---for always."
As little Misha finished his story, his eyes brimmed full of tears that splashed down his little cheeks. Putting his hand over his face, his head dropped to the table and his shoulders shook as he sobbed and sobbed. Then little orphan had found someone who would never abandon nor abuse him, someone who would stay with him--FOR ALWAYS.










And here's some stats...




“On the state of the children in the Russian Federation”, 20034 million Russian children were born out of wedlock in the last 10 years. 400,000 illegitimate children were born in 2002, a 40 thousand annual increase.


Committee on the Rights of The Child in Ukraine, 2002Children in orphanages lack food, medical care, and suitable facilities. Mortality in orphanages is dramatically high. They have been called "death houses". At the beginning of 2000 it was determined that the financial situation of institutions for children with special needs had worsened and most of these children would be denied education.
The CoMission for Children at Risk, 2002About 15,000 Russian orphans leave orphanages each year, once they are 16 to 18 years old. Of these, 5,000 are unemployed, some 6,000 are homeless, around 3,000 resort to crime, approximately 1,500 commit suicide, and roughly half the girls are forced into prostitution.


Ministry of Education of the Russian Federation, 2000After leaving their orphanages:
50% - fall into a high-risk category
40% - become drug users
40% - commit crimes
10% - commit suicide


Wednesday, December 10, 2008

The world needs MORE images like this


found this at an unusual blog (not one I frequent) but I had been doing a search on MAry's maternity and Mary nursing the Christ child and I found this...
An unusual statuette of Mary breastfeeding the baby Jesus shocked some with its nudity, but inspired the faith of others, including Atlanta writer Trudie Barreras. She submitted the photo above and the following story about this “marvelously sensitive and realistic perspective of the mother of Jesus.” The Jesus in Love Blog is sharing Barreras’ moving and important materials here because we support art that seeks to embody spirituality.
OUR LADY OF TRAVELS TO LIFE WITH REALITYBy Trudie BarrerasMy husband Ray and I made a trip to Monterrey, Mexico in December of 2001, traveling by bus because we were disgusted with all the “security frenzy” that had gripped air travel in the aftermath of 9/11. The trip, even though via “express” buses, was a grueling 26 hours, and we arrived at our destination, the MCC church in Monterrey, quite worn out.Shortly thereafter, I discovered a little statuette of Mary riding donkey-back and nursing the infant Jesus. This statue was in a “Christmas market” that specialized in figurines for the Nativity scenes that are very much a part of the Mexican culture. Most of the other figures were much more “traditional.” Indeed, this one was completely unique, representing a “perspective” I’d never seen before. Gazing at the face of the Mother, I was gripped by the thought: “This is Reality.” I reflected on my own extreme exhaustion after a 26-hour trip in a relatively comfortable bus, and wondered how a woman could have carried a nursing infant all the way from Israel to Egypt.I felt it was very important to obtain this statuette, and bring her back to Atlanta to share with the various spiritual communities of which I am a part, including First Metropolitan Community Church of Atlanta and the Excel retreat ministry in which I participate. I christened her “Our Lady of Travels to Life with Reality,”or, in Spanish, “Nuestra Señora de los Viajes á la Vida con Realidad.” I believe that others who meditate on the meaning portrayed by this representation may experience some of the same thoughts that have come to me. There is, of course, much more to this story, and anyone who wants to dialog with me about it is welcome to contact me by e-mail at: tbarreras@bellsouth.net.Sadly, when I attempted to share “Our Lady of Travels” with my own community at First MCC of Atlanta by placing the statue in our small meditation chapel, someone was apparently offended by the breast-feeding, and fashioned a “poncho” for her out of Kleenex! My pastor regretfully suggested that I should probably take her home. Fortunately, most of the other venues to which I have brought this marvelously sensitive and realistic perspective of the mother of Jesus seem to have responded with a sense of blessing and not of shock.
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1 comments:
Yvonne said...
Er, well obviously Mary would have breastfed Jesus.The style's a bit kitschy, but I think Mary should be celebrated as a real woman.MCC people shocked by breastfeeding? Oh please! Is there no refuge for sanity in the Christian community???
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Friday, December 5, 2008

A Baby Changes Everything

A BABY Changes Everything

I think we most definitely take for granted the significance of our GOD coming to us as a BABY! We just gloss over it as if that is to be expected. It is a radical radical thing and we should stop and reflect on this often. I love Christmas. I think most people do. Why is that? It's not really the presents or the food or the parties. If we reflect on it - even non-believers too - we can admit that there is something mysterious and other-worldly about this time of year and this celebration. There is something deep inside the human heart that yearns for this kind of purity and joy that only Christmas provides. Why is that? The Incarnation is the most awesome statement of the dignity and the holiness of man - the human person. God came down and was one of us. But not only that but He came down and chose to be small, very small, almost invisible inside the womb of His mother. He chose to live there and to grow there and to stay hidden just like us. He was fragile and helpless and silently swimming in the holy waters within a WOMAN. He was not a man or a warrior or a king but a baby, a baby. What does this say to us about the dignity of motherhood? About the holiness of pregnancy and the unborn? What does this tell us about the power of one tiny human person unseen and unheard living at the mercy of his mother and her willingness to guard and protect and to nurture the life within her? The Incarnation says so much. The Incarnation says everything we need to know about the LOVE God has for His creatures, His children. He loves us and He wants us to reverence the mystery of every new creation, not to fear it. He wants us to see how IMPORTANT this mystery is! He wants us to know that a baby changes everything. A BABY changes the world. He gave this gift to all of us - the gift of Himself. But we must not cut off God's choice to come into this world as a baby from the deep meaning this choice holds. God can choose anything, He can do anything or manifest Himself any way He wishes. He chose this way - Why? It matters. It is the mystery that makes Christmas so magical and filled with wonder. This is the reason we all celebrate even if we aren't believers per se - the Incarnation itself brings forth JOY to the World whether the world takes notice or not. Oh the holiness and joy that was the maternity of our Blessed Mother! The sacred hiddeness of the unborn baby Jesus - GOD hidden inside a woman, inside her womb! The master of all creation the God beyond time and beyond this universe the endless everything the all and total the One who is all power and all truth and all goodness and all light and all love - just a tiny little one...

A Baby Changes Everything - I just heard this song on the radio. check out the youtube video in thie other post... I loved the dual meaning. It triggers a lot of emotion in me. I think it is so beautiful how the presence of a baby and his effect on his mother is hidden in these lyrics but more importantly the pointing to the awesome CHANGE the incarnation of Jesus held not only for His mother but for the WORLD for all eternity!

Sunday, November 30, 2008

Saturday, November 29, 2008

The beginnings of this year's Christmas card...






























































































































































































































Getting the kids together to take some photos seems to always goes something like this:

"Get over here, get over here, get ooooooooooover heeeeeeeeeeeere!" Sit down, sit down, damn it all of you sit down!" "Do you want Santa to bring you gifts for Christmas? - yes - then sit your butts down and smile! Smile I said not look goofy. Stop it! Stop touching her! No no no don't close your eyes. Get back over here. Just sit down and....Can't you people just sit your asses down for two seconds and take one nice picture for our Christmas cards!!! For goodness sakes you'd think I was asking you all to cut off your right arm!" Now everybody just look up here and smile! Smile damn it smile!!!

Okay everybody say "Merry Christmas"


Oh the irony!! Thank goodness this wasn't recorded on video. Or maybe on second thought that would have been nice to have...for a good laugh down the road! Every year those Christmas cards I send out are a heck of a lot more trouble to pull off than anyone realizes...
































We have FUN though don't we? I love my kiddos!

A Soldier's Night Before Christmas

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

St Catherine of Siena (my patron saint chosen as my confirmation name!) said this:
"We've had enough of exhortations to be silent! Cry out with a hundred thousand tongues. I see that the world is rotten because of silence."

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

A Mother's Poem

A Mother's Anguish


I long to hold you
in my arms,
to see your precious
baby charms.
Though I know
it will never be,
your sweet child face
I yearn to see.

Your fate was sealed
so long ago,
I made the "choice"
to let you go.

You're with God
and I am here,
but one day we'll meet
and I'll draw you near.

I'll hold you close
and hear you say,
"Mama I love you . . .
anyway."

-- Jeanene Clarke

Moms For Life

Moms For Life

Cowards in High Places

Over at www.Catholicculture.com is an article on Fr. Newman a courageous pastor who had the courage to speak the truth in love to his flock. here is a tidbit of the article -

St. Mary's church in Greenville, South Carolina, is a model Catholic parish, with an outstanding young pastor. The liturgy is beautiful and reverent; the religious instruction is meticulous and orthodox; the lay people are numerous and active. There is a busy school (run by the Nashville Dominicans), and each year there are dozens of adults welcomed into the Catholic Church at the Easter Vigil.
But that's not why you've heard so much about St. Mary's in the past two weeks. In fact, the success of the parish is not why I'm writing about it today.
St. Mary's has suddenly become the focus of nationwide attention because of what the pastor said-- or rather, what the media said he had said-- about people who had voted for Barack Obama.
Before going any further, let's set the record straight. Father Jay Scott Newman did not say that he would deny the Eucharist to Obama supporters. In a message that he placed in the parish bulletin, he strongly recommended prayers for the .....

....To his credit, once he realized how much commotion he had caused, Father Newman wrote a longer message-- this time addressed not only to his parish but to all interested parties-- seeking to allay any potential confusion. This new, longer statement spelled out the crucial moral distinctions between a vote cast for legal abortion and a vote cast for a candidate who, among other things, favors legal abortion. If the first statement was defective, this clarification was an appropriate remedy, accurately conveying the full and nuanced teaching of the Church as Jeff Mirus acknowledges. Unfortunately the Charleston diocese ordered Father Newman not to release that clarification, and the excellent statement that was posted on the St. Mary's parish web site has been removed. So the confusion endures.
This campaign season saw the debate over abortion, and more particularly, over the duty of Catholic voters to resist legal abortion. Imagine if Father Newman had issued the same sort of pastoral warning regarding some immoral behavior that does not carry such strong political implications. Suppose, for instance, he had said that men who use pornography, or women who have undergone voluntary sterilization, should not receive Communion before making a good Confession. Would such a warning draw a rebuke from the chancery, too? If a pastor cannot warn his people about the moral consequences of their behavior, then the Church cannot instruct the faithful.
Father Newman's statement was a powerful challenge, not only to his own parishioners, but to countless thousands of Catholics and even non-Catholics who read it. He forcefully reminded us all that abortion is not an abstraction (as those who pound home the slogan of "choice" would have us believe) but a concrete reality. Our attitude toward abortion is not only a matter of personal opinion but a moral decision, for which we shall all be held to account.

_ I think you can gather from the shorts excerpts I have placed here that Fr. Newman was being "shut down" or getting the proverbial "kabash" (is that how you spell that?) for speaking the truth to his flock. And what should a pastor do? Should he sit by and watch his little lambs blindly walk into danger? Should he not have more concern for their immortal souls than for their delicate feelings? And what about these bishops of ours? What about our cardinals? Where is their courage? How are they leading their flocks? What is up with their passive luke warmness? What is going on with their quiet letters and thei dainty little press releases? How much of a warning cry are they calling out to their lambs? Is it that we are not listening well? Of course!!! We aren't listening at all! We are blinding bleeting and chewing the grass along paths that lead to the cliff's edge! What is a shepherd to do as he watches the lamb creep ever closer to the brink? Should he send out a gently worded article to a little read publication or should he leap to his feet and call out loudly as he catches that lamb by its feet with the crook of his shepherd's staff!
Now is the time for action for energy for ZEAL! The time for poetic lecture and tender "guidance" is over. We have tried that for 30 years and what has it gotten us? Obama, a pro-death house and senate, Catholic in PUBLIC dissent from their Church, a culture of death and a slide downward toward even more blatant agression towards the Church and her teachings! Wake up my brothers, my bishops! and have courage! the TRUTH is on your side and HE is the TRUTH!

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Living Life and Apppreciating Every Minute of It
















Just some random pics from the past couple months. I am going to try to get back into the swing of things here on the blog...I need to take the holiday photos and start planning the Christmas card etc. This year has just flown by!
Lately I've been doing a lot of reflecting on my life, my family, and just the great privilege of being alive and seeing my kiddos grow! WOW how things have changed and how Tim and I both have grown and changed and it all is kind of overwhelming to me. I came across some VHS tapes this week of Tim and I "back in the day" as new parents and yet to be married. We were living in the apartment and we were so young and so silly, and joy-filled, and thin!
As I watched tape after tape I began to realize just how precious life is! That may seem obvious but you know day to day I can get so wrapped up in the bs of life that I forget that truth. I saw how much we loved each other and how much we loved Morgan. I was amazed by the sheer joy and super abundance of love we had to give our new baby. This little person seemed to have this same effect on all the people in my family. I watched all of us fall all over ourselves to have a chance at making her smile or better yet produce a little baby giggle or gurgle. We all seemed to be united and focused. Of course the back drop for all this joy and unity is vital in understanding why I got so emotional as I watched the videos play.
I couldn't help but marvel at all of our transformations. I couldn't help but be awe struck by the obvious graces poured out upon us. We were a family touched and transformed by God. One unplanned pregnancy became the catalyst for many leaps of faith! And we leaped and leaped and we keep on leaping today! My vision of my mysterious baby still invisible to me as a gift, a mystery worth discovering, worth taking a risk for is the vision which opened the door to Christ in my life. He used my surrender then and there and the chain of events since that have been just one blessing upon the next. My mother, my father, my sister, Martin, Tim, all of us have been changed over the years. We love each other more and as a new person has come into this imperfect and often "dysfunctional" family we have learned how to love MORE and sacrifice MORE and we are ALL the better for it! And there it was captured on VHS.
We don't appreciate life. we don't stop to think about what a gift it is. We take it for granted. Our growth, our learning, or changing, the love we feel, the love we give, breathing in and breathing out. Opening our eyes to a new day, day after day and given a chance to be more and do more! It is all so amazing!! I am amazed by the love of God, and how we forget it, ignore it, as it is all around us. I am glad I got some time to see it and contemplate it. I have made a promise to myself that I will be more deliberate about stopping to SEE the people in my life. I will SEE them and how they are ALIVE. I will SEE their LIFE and see it as a gift and a treasure and a MYSTERY! I will marvel in the mystery of my own life and my own personhood. God made me. God has a plan for me. He has always had a plan for me and He has loved me from the beginning of all time! WOW!

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Friday, November 7, 2008

The Blessings of a Large Catholic Family IIa

Jon Foreman - Your Love Is Strong

I love this song...It inspires me when I feel like there is so much I cannot do and so many things that I cannot control. I take so much comfort and find so much peace in the fact that His love is STRONG and His love is for me!